Saturday, September 26, 2020

Belonging and Longing to Belong


Chapel address given virtually at EMS on September 18, 2020.

Hello, my EMS friends, my name is Don Clymer. I retired several years ago from teaching Spanish and other things just up the hill at EMU. Previous to that, I worked with Virginia Mennonite Conference and Missions, which is also located close to you. My daughter and her husband both graduated from EMS as did my son. In fact, my son Mattias, is on the alumni board of EMS. I also had several nieces and nephews graduate from here. My wife and I have been fans of your touring choir for many years, even before our children sang in it. In fact, when my son was in the choir, we spent several days with them in Switzerland during their European tour. My wife is from Switzerland and both of my children are Swiss citizens as well.

Speaking of Switzerland, the roots of my family lie there. Most of you, if not ALL of you, are from families of immigrants as well. Our families came here from every part of the globe. We have been cut off from the roots of our family tree, and because of this, many of us have a longing to find out where we belong. And to whom we belong. After I married a Swiss woman, I was quite interested in knowing more about where my family had come from since we were always told that we were either from Swiss or German background. I had a longing to know this link to my past, to belong to somewhere. So, I started to do some research.

I discovered that Thoman Klymer, the earliest ancestor that I could find, was born around 1536 in Montbeliard, France. That’s a long time ago!  Over 480 years ago. This was right near the beginning of the Reformation and the establishment of the Protestant Church. Thoman became a Protestant in France. They were called Huguenots. The French government didn’t take too keenly to the Protestant movement, so Thoman Klymer had to flee for his life, so he fled to Affoltern am Albis in Switzerland, where his great-great grandson, my immigrant ancestor, Valentine Klemmer, (Klemmer and Klymer have been interchanged throughout the centuries) was born in 1665. Somewhere around 1685, he became an Anabaptist. Now it was his turn to have to flee for his life! Something in my background makes me a bit of a radical! He fled to Germany for about 20 years then immigrated to the USA in 1717. More than 300 years ago!

Finding all this information made me feel like I belong! I belong to a family tribe that goes back to at least 1560! I also belong to the Anabaptist/Mennonite faith, which for me stretches back 340 years. My longing to belong has been satisfied! However, if you only stick to your tribe, you exclude a lot of people! They feel unwelcome in your presence!

I got abruptly kicked out of my tribes when I went to Honduras for two years as a 19-year old to serve in voluntary service with the Mennonite Church. When I got there, I felt completely alien, like I didn’t belong! I recently had a book published about my two years there.

When I first arrived, I didn’t know the language, I didn’t know all the cultural nuances, and I felt like a duck out of water. I made plenty of cultural mistakes, but, as the years went by, I began to feel more at home, if not ever completely. My language improved, I made many friendships with Hondurans, and I began to really love the food.

As I developed closer friendships with Hondurans, I discovered that the way I viewed the world, and many of the assumptions that I made about faith and life, were not understood the same way as Hondurans. I had a very arrogant view of my country and how blessed by God we were for all the wealth and material blessings we had.

However, they pointed out to me that much of the wealth of the USA came thorough exploitation of Honduran and other Latin American people and their natural resources. In Honduras it was bananas. We typically pay under a dollar for a pound of bananas in the US. In order for them to be so cheap for us, workers slave in the hot tropical sun in the fields for a mere 2 US dollars a day. While thousands of acres of the best land are planted with bananas, people in the villages surrounding these plantations are malnourished. Was my blessing their curse?

            In Harrisonburg, I have met many Hondurans living here. We immediately connect with each other when they hear about my time in their homeland. Most of them are here to improve their economic situation. However, they don’t really feel connected to the wider culture that surrounds them here. They often feel hateful stares and racial slurs thrown at them. They certainly don’t feel like they belong. So, they stick together in their neighborhoods seldom mixing with the broader community.

            Many of those in the white majority here in the US think that our country belongs only to certain groups of people from Europe, and our language is English. These people haven’t studied their history very well. The first city found in the USA was St. Augustine, Florida in 1565 as a Spanish-speaking settlement. Pretty interesting that that date is about the same date as my earliest discovered ancestor was born.

            By the time the first British colony was founded in 1607 in Jamestown, there were Spanish missions already established in all of the southwest from Texas to California and north to Oregon, as well as in Georgia, Mississippi and Louisiana. Spanish was already spoken in a large area of the United States before English got a toehold. Today, after Mexico, the United States is the second largest Spanish-speaking country in the world!

            My longing for belonging took me from my sheltered life to Switzerland, Germany and then to Honduras. I developed skills in culture and language in each of these places. In addition, my Mennonite tribe has been extended to belong in all of these countries. I have found where I belong and then opened my tribes to others different from me. I have been truly blessed, but not in the way I had originally thought.

            Where do you belong? Where do you long to belong? Will you include those who don’t speak and look like you as well?

Tuesday, September 22, 2020

Comments on "Coming of Age in Honduras"


I've received over 15 comments on my book from family and friends who have read it. It has been gratifying for me how many have taken the time to comment. Something about the book reasonated with them in some way. This is the hope of every author! Below are some of the comments:

Many ex-volunteers, or people who had lived abroad, especially in underdeveloped countries, identified my story with theirs. The wrestling with poverty and faith were especially strong. It was also a walk down memory lane for many. 

Most identified it as a good read. Kept them engaged as they read.

Several wrote about the "vivid" pictures I painted with my writing. "I could imagine with my mind's eye the scenes and the people you describe."

Several couldn't believe that I could remember so well things that had taken place so many years ago (Over 50 to be exact). 

One reader chuckled as they remembered the 60s and how the cultural milieu deeply influenced us.

Some struggled with my Conscientious Objector position, others admired my strong ethical stance to the temptations I faced. One thought I portrayed myself as too innocent. One thanked me for remembering the ramifications of  people my age who had to go to war in Vietnam. 

One thought that the book was a "delightful combination of analysis and narration." In other words, I painted a historical/analytical backdrop for my stories. 

One reader was the widow of one of my companions and was grateful for some new insights on her deceased husband's work while in Honduras.

One reader with a Latino background said that my description of Latino culture was "spot on." 

Some readers called me adventurous. 

Several readers couldn't believe the amount of responsibilities I had as a 19-year old; work in the credit unions, building of a chick starter house,  an addition to the house we lived in, and preaching in Spanish.  

These comments are extremely gratifying for an author. Many times we feel like we are writing in a vacuum, so when our work touches someone, it makes the expended energy worthwhile. Thank yo to those who took the time to write. I hope to hear from more of you soon. 

Friday, September 4, 2020

Foreword to Honduras Memoir


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This memoir is about the two and a quarter year period of my life that I spent in Honduras as a volunteer with a voluntary service (VS) program of Eastern Mennonite Missions (EMM). At the time, the organization was known as Eastern Mennonite Board of Missions and Charities (EMBMC). I was 19 years old when I left and returned four months before my 21st birthday. My stint in Honduras covered a period from January 1968 to April 1970.

 

The United States was embroiled in a seemingly endless war in Vietnam at the time. Every 18-year old male had to register with United States Armed Forces and be subject to a subsequent draft; it was obligatory. We all knew that we would be drafted to serve for two years at around age 19. All my high school friends and classmates had to prepare for this upcoming event. Not only did the males have to think about this eventuality, but the young women who were in a relationship with a young man also had to prepare for what this unavoidable reality would do to their relationship. 

 

I registered as a conscientious objector (CO). This meant that I was opposed to serving in the Armed Forces in any capacity. This was the position of the Mennonite Church, of which I was a member. The United States government recognized the Mennonite Church as a “historic peace church” because they had theological positions on peace and nonresistance that dated back to the 16th Century. Members of historic peace churches were granted an exemption from serving in the Armed Forces, but they still had to serve for two years of what was called “alternative service.” These alternative service programs had to be approved by the US government. The VS program in Honduras was one such program. During this journey, my Mennonite beliefs were put to the test. Nevertheless, this period really solidified my theological views of peace and nonresistance: that Jesus is the “Prince of Peace” and that his teachings and life are pivotal to Christian life and faith.

 

The memories contained in this book are my memories; mine alone. Other people may remember the story differently, or they may have lived through the same experience while coming to different conclusions. Memory is admittedly highly selective, and we are often gentler on ourselves than we would have been on other people who are experiencing the same thing. I apologize in advance for the times that I have committed this error.


Nevertheless, the memories that I relate in this memoir are ones that made a profound impact on me and have indelibly shaped my life. My worldview was expanded, my faith was stretched, and my innocence was shattered. Some of my stories may be shocking to some readers, but I share them to give a complete picture of what I experienced.  

 

I hope these stories will give the reader insights into how a CO experienced the time of obligatory draft in the USA. I am of the opinion that the Mennonite Church was greatly impacted from what happened to COs of that time. At my 50th High School anniversary, classmate after classmate shared how their service had impacted them. Although many of our youth still serve, because it is not obligatory, many do not. Our current generation of young people are missing out on some incredible adventures and life-changing experiences. More importantly, the church is missing the insights of these changed individuals returning to their pews. I hope that sharing my experiences will open a window into that tumultuous period of time. I want to challenge my readers to share a period of time with marginalized peoples wherever they may be found, “in the name of Christ.”

 

For my Latin American readers, I acknowledge that these memories are from a U.S. American perspective, despite how much I was changed through my time alongside you. You have taught me an incredible amount about your history, your culture, and your language. Through your patience with me, I gained many new perceptions about the world and my personal life. I have returned to you time and again for further service, study, and teaching others about your beauty.


In addition, I gained a profession which allowed me to share what I learned from you to a much wider audience. However, because of the insights that I gained from you, I have been plagued throughout my life with a deep restlessness; a searching for deeper meaning about the world around me and the world within myself. I have had a longing for a deeper relationship with God, and a longing for a more fulfilling way to share my life with the world. I am deeply grateful for this restlessness; it has helped to remind me that I am a “stranger and a pilgrim” (Heb. 11:13) on this earth, and that I “have here no lasting city” (Hebrews 13:14). I belong to the Reign of God.


Book can be purchased here: Masthof Press