I will begin by admitting that I couldn’t be more in the
center of power when it comes to the make up of delegates who attended the
convention. I am a middle-aged (okay, some would say old) white male from
ethnic roots that extend back over 300 years in the USA alone. Some people
quake when I say I am a professor and others squirm when the discover that I am
a published author. I am not marginalized by any stretch of the imagination,
unless my two artificial knees qualify for some sort of handicap.
Kansas City skyline from my perspective. |
So I just got home from my first-ever national convention of
the Mennonite Church. The experience was pretty awesome. That four thousand
people, only 800 of whom were voting delegates, thought it worth spending
beaucoup bucks (okay, maybe here I would have a critique) speaks volumes.
The first night I attended the combined worship service. Now
I confess that the attempt to be relevant to people jaded by the bells and
whistles of popular culture was a little over the top. I wouldn’t have needed
the hype, the volume, the multi-colored floodlights and the smoke, but there
were many worshipful moments and great teaching. In fact, the teaching at each
worship session I attended was first rate. I was especially challenged by Dale
Schrag’s message about certitude.
Let me mention walking in the halls between all the
sessions. I met friends from all across the nation, many of whom I hadn’t seen
in years—from places I’d lived and from former students. And they weren’t all
pale faces, either. Hugs, smiles and pictures from Latino and African-American
friends livened up my encounters. True, there weren’t enough of them in the
halls and at the tables, but I can only imagine there were more than 20 years
ago, and the number continues to grow.
Not only did I get to meet old friends, I met many new ones.
I had some significant conversations with numerous people during meals or over
coffee. We didn’t solve the world’s problems, but we came close.
Table group No. 4. |
Then we get to those delegate (delicate?) sessions. Over 800
of us crammed in the hall. I was at table number four. Apparently there were
some substantial issues at stake for us to discuss, so I viewed those around
the table with quite a bit of skepticism. I only knew one of them. Our table
leader, Earl Kellog, a member of the Executive Board, was such a sweet,
non-threatening presence, that we were put at ease before we started.
As we progressed through the agenda of the week, it became
obvious that we differed substantially on nearly all the issues. But we
discussed everything civilly, learned to trust each other, and to deeply
respect each other’s point of view. Could I even say we “loved” each other? It
sure differed from the way people tend to express their views on social media.
Being a delegate, I couldn’t attend all the seminars that
were available (although I did play hooky from one delegate session in order to
present a seminar of my own). Wow! What a plethora of offerings! When we had
free time I was able to attend a very useful and provocative panel discussion
on the post-Ferguson effects on the Mennonite church.
It was impossible to attend everything. There were special
services for particular issues, times to meet in prayer and contemplation for
the soul and times to exercise for the body. Kudos to the planners for all the
work that went into this event.
I realize that there was pain and exclusion at the
conference. I realize that not everyone has the same perspective as I. However,
I have become rather weary of all the negative stuff posted on social media
about the conference, and the echoes from their friends who hadn’t even
attended. It was not perfect, but there were a lot of things to celebrate at
this gathering of God’s people at this particular time in our history.
Thanks for this blog, Don. I felt much the same way as you state here. A lot of the negative reaction to the delegate sessions seems to have come from those who were also the most disruptive. I was pained by that. -Dan Wenger
ReplyDeleteThank you for your positive feedback, Dan. I want to go forward with "forbearance" but it is tough when too often the shrillest voices are heard.
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